It was better for your heart to be broken than for your life to be lost! God allows betrayal to reveal the hearts of those who were prone to betraying you in the future – when the betrayal would perhaps be more destructive. It was better for you to hurt than to die! In the words of the author, “Pain is better than death!” It may have been painful, but it saved your life, future, and destiny. Though hurtful, it was your victory!
Five reasons God allows separation and pain.
Why it is vital to search your pain for its lesson in order to attest your healing.
The dangers of unhealed pain and un-surrendered pain; and why pain must turn into intimacy and not calamity in order to thrive.
Understand how to redefine your “wins” as what you call pain, God calls victory!